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Day 9 – Tackling the Unknown

February 5, 2011

I can’t say that I have the time or energy to put into a blog on a consistent basis.  I have a job.  I have really amazing job that I love.  I have a really amazing job that I love that ALSO requires 10 hours of my full attention and energy 4 days a week.  Sometimes more.  Up at 7, workout, shower & dress, work, come home.  Basically, 7am to 7pm.  After a day at work, I don’t blog.  The other 3 days are for my regular life.  My hubby, my family, my friends… ME.

I am proud of what I do, and this week I accomplished something that I feel is worth telling you about.  I attempted to fix our schedule.  I can’t even  explain how I started that journey, but my boss LIKED my idea and we are implementing it!!!  This is a huge deal.  He hates our current schedule and has let me change it around entirely.  Here’s hoping it blows eveyone’s mind, because our schedule is my baby, and now it is my creation.

Day 01- A recent picture of you and 15 interesting facts about yourself
Day 02- The meaning behind your blog name
Day 03- A recent picture of you and your friends
Day 04- A habit that you wish you didn’t have
Day 05- A picture of somewhere you’ve been to
Day 06- Favorite super hero/fictional character and why
Day 07- A picture of someone/something that has the biggest impact on you
Day 08- Short term goals for this month and why
Day 09- Something you’re proud of in the past few days
Day 10- Songs you listen to when you are Happy, Sad, Bored, Hyped, Mad
Day 11- Another picture of you and your friends
Day 12- How you found out about WordPress and why you made one
Day 13- A letter to someone who has hurt you
Day 14- A picture of you and your family
Day 15- Put your iPod on shuffle: First 10 songs that play
Day 16- Another picture of yourself
Day 17- Someone you would want to switch lives with for one day and why
Day 18- Plans/dreams/goals you have
Day 19- Nicknames you have; why do you have them
Day 20- Someone you see yourself marrying/being with in the future
Day 21- A picture of something that makes you happy
Day 22- What makes you different from everyone else
Day 23- Something you crave for a lot
Day 24- A letter to your parents
Day 25- What I would find in your bag
Day 26- What you think about your friends
Day 27- Why are you doing this 30 day challenge
Day 28- A picture of you last year and now, how have you changed since then?
Day 29- In this past month, what have you learned
Day 30- Who are you

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New Year, New Journey

January 21, 2011

I need to maintain a fairly fit lifestyle because of my connective tissue disorder that causes aneurysms. I’ve already had one, and am prone to more. High blood pressure and an unhealthy heart are serious issues for anyone, but even moreso for me. I am constantly reminded that my heart is not like everyone elses! It is so imperative that I am fully conscious of, and accountable for, my health.

I will be a high-risk pregnancy no matter what, but I do have SOME control going into the whole process. I know it is so important for me to be in tip top shape when my husband and I start trying to conceive. That is my goal for 2011. Two-fold, actually! One, to be in the best shape possible so I am able to become pregnant, and two, to maintain a healthy pregnancy and deliver a healthy, beautiful baby. (We’ll get to the post-pregnancy goals later…)

It won’t be easy, but we are beyond excited to start trying in the first half of this year!! I’ll update when I have something to update about! 😉

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CHANGE YOUR LIFE

November 28, 2010
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Day 5 – Oh The Places You’ll Go….

October 26, 2010
Oia, Santorini, Greece

My first time out of the country – 2 weeks in Greece for our honeymoon in 2008.  I’d had my open heart surgery just a month prior… Talk about the trip of a lifetime.

Day 01- A recent picture of you and 15 interesting facts about yourself
Day 02- The meaning behind your blog name
Day 03- A recent picture of you and your friends
Day 04- A habit that you wish you didn’t have
Day 05- A picture of somewhere you’ve been to
Day 06- Favorite super hero/fictional character and why
Day 07- A picture of someone/something that has the biggest impact on you
Day 08- Short term goals for this month and why
Day 09- Something you’re proud of in the past few days
Day 10- Songs you listen to when you are Happy, Sad, Bored, Hyped, Mad
Day 11- Another picture of you and your friends
Day 12- How you found out about WordPress and why you made one
Day 13- A letter to someone who has hurt you
Day 14- A picture of you and your family
Day 15- Put your iPod on shuffle: First 10 songs that play
Day 16- Another picture of yourself
Day 17- Someone you would want to switch lives with for one day and why
Day 18- Plans/dreams/goals you have
Day 19- Nicknames you have; why do you have them
Day 20- Someone you see yourself marrying/being with in the future
Day 21- A picture of something that makes you happy
Day 22- What makes you different from everyone else
Day 23- Something you crave for a lot
Day 24- A letter to your parents
Day 25- What I would find in your bag
Day 26- What you think about your friends
Day 27- Why are you doing this 30 day challenge
Day 28- A picture of you last year and now, how have you changed since then?
Day 29- In this past month, what have you learned
Day 30- Who are you?

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My Wedding Ring Doesn’t Fit…

October 17, 2010

  …because it’s too big!!

One of my very first, noticeable accomplishments during my weight loss journey (part deux) was the feeling of my beautiful wedding ring becoming more and more loose.  Thankfully, I hadn’t gained too much between my wedding and when I started my diet/exercise program, so we’re talking just a few weeks into it when I noticed this change. 

A small, insignificant thing to some, but a huge deal to me!  It was like dropping a dress size or something! 

Of course, my reaction was priceless; “Oh my gosh, honey!!  LOOKLOOKLOOK!  It’s too big!  I could flick my hand & it might fly off!”  That last part was NOT true, by the way, but you get the picture.

This is one of those things I’m always talking about!

Small goals

Baby steps

Make a big deal out of these little things, and you’ll find yourself noticing more changes, more often.  How motivating to celebrate every bit of progress, big or small!

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I Gave Up French Fries For My Wedding Dress

October 10, 2010

Something to remember when you’re losing weight is to write down your goals… and start small.  Make your goals attainable to help keep you motivated.  Baby steps! 

Maybe you’re interested in running; you’re not going to go sign up for the next New York City Marathon!  You’re going to start small – a 5k charity walk, and then a few months later, jog a 3k.  Once you’ve become more comfortable in your running shoes, sign up for a half marathon.  You get the picture.

My goals do NOT involve running, but I love new clothes.  Of course, I didn’t start off at 200 pounds trying to squeeze myself into a pair of size 8 jeans!  I had to set more realistic goals.  First, lose 2 dress sizes.  Next, try on a size 10 pair of pants.  No buying!  Size 10 was not my goal.  I did, however, buy my wedding dress two sizes too small 6 months before my wedding (no pressure… I made it, though!!).  Now I’m a size 4, and own my dream “goal weight” little black dress!

Once you’re at your goal weight/size, you need to stay motivated in order to maintain!  You’ve worked really hard to get the body you have, don’t stop setting goals now!  Treat yourself to a night out every once in a while, reward yourself with a fun new workout program or a brand new pair of sneakers.  How about a laptop or beach vacation to showcase your bikini bod?

Everyone has different goals.  Dream BIG, but start small and work your way up.  This will help keep you focused, motivated & on track to accomplish everything you could ever imagine!

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Think Before You Speak

September 26, 2010

It’s the most discouraging thing to hear some of the things people say to you when you lose weight:

– “You’re too skinny.”  Oh really?  When I was fat, you didn’t seem concerned.  I never heard, “you’re too fat,” when THAT was a fact.

– “Melissa looks anorexic.”  I eat 5 times a day. Breakfast, snack, lunch, snack, dinner.  I’m not anorexic, so don’t say I look like it.

– “I think Melissa is bulimic.”  And your basis for this accusation would be?  My husband & coworkers see me eat every day and not throw up.

– “You look unhealthy.”  I visit my doctors WAY more than you do, and they’d tell me if I was unhealthy.  In fact, I’ve never been healthier.

– “I like girls with curves.”  I’m not your girl.  I still have curves, too, they’re just smaller and more toned than ever.

– “You’re a workout-aholic.”  Stop saying this, it doesn’t make any sense.  There’s no such thing as a workout-aholic.  I enjoy working out, it’s good for you and people should do it more.  I’m going to talk about it because I want to motivate others.

Most of all, I cannot stand when someone says ANY of these things and then follows it up with, BUT I SUPPORT YOU.  The problem with people saying these things is that it’s not actually out of concern.  No one is staging an intervention.  These words are mean, sabotaging and hurtful.  It is more than obvious that I am happier and healthier now than before.  Healthy Melissa looks very different from heavy Melissa & people don’t know how to process this new image.  Words become critical, oftentimes unintentionally.  I look different and all of a sudden, people become uneasy and aren’t sure how to approach me.

It is just as important for the people who currently say these things to read, as it is for anyone else who knows another person who has lost weight and may say these things.  It’s also going to be relatable for someone else who has lost a significant amount of weight, because I know they hear these things, too.

I want to educate people & hope they realize that what they say has a profound and possibly negative impact on the person on the receiving end.  These words are hurtful, especially when they hold no basis in reality.  If you want to be supportive, then think before you speak.

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